Tuesday, January 31, 2023

last day "in" Denmark

Time to wrap up our month of Denmark with traditional Danish/Scandinavian food. 

On Saturday Samantha and I had a fun trip to IKEA where she treated me to a lunch of Swedish meatballs. I have a great recipe for homemade ones, but I can never get the sauce as good as IKEA. I did buy a jar of Lingonberry jam to go on the side.









On Sunday I tried out my Danish-immigrant-great-grandmother's recipe for rice pudding. Guess what - I feel so bad but I did not like it at all! I'm sure the recipe was fine and turned out just the way it should. It even looked real pretty with the nutmeg sprinkled on top. But I'm afraid I am not a nutmeg person, and I couldn't get used to the texture of the rice pudding, and I really am not used to rice being sweet. I mean, even with teriyaki sauce, rice just seems like a savory dish. I did find out, through my research, that at Christmas time the tradition of rice pudding takes on an even more festive flavor and look about it with more cream and a cherry sauce. It is called Risalamande.

On Sunday I also made our family gingersnap recipe. I'm not sure how far back or who to attribute that recipe to, but it's been around as long as I can remember. And I am happy to say I LOVED them, as usual. Though the store-bought gingersnaps are very yummy and live up to the "snap", they are more like a biscuit whereas our homemade gingersnaps come out very soft and wonderful. Since I told my co-workers about my project I brought some to work and they seemed to be a big hit.



So - that's Denmark. 

Sunday, January 29, 2023

Guest blogger Samantha - Preschool in Denmark

When I was still attending BYU Idaho and earning my degree in Professional Preschool Education, I had to take a seminar class for every semester of my student teaching. In this class, we learned about important topics that can make a huge difference in the field of both child development and early childhood education each semester. Although this class was only once a week, the things I learned were profound to say the least. In the second semester, we learned about why it's important for young children to be out in the natural world. There were instances where my professor told us how Denmark is well known for enforcing just that. So, with that being said, here are some facts about what preschool and day care is like in a country that I am grateful to have be part of my cultural makeup.

1. The word "børnehus" is Danish for children house. It is known to be kind of combined with daycare and preschool.

2. Most children in Denmark attend preschool full time and the cost is actually subsidized at exactly 75% by the Danish government. Children who attend preschool are to be three to six years old, infants and toddlers attend a separate type of daycare called "daypleje" or "vuggestue." 

3. The reason why infants and toddlers attend a different type of daycare is because according to belief, children are not developmentally ready for structured academic learning.

4. Denmark's philosophy in teaching young children is "the time is better spent developing creativity, imagination, motor skills, social skills, and an interest in learning."

5. Lots of learning does happen in preschools in Denmark but they believe that most learning is through play. This is something I absolutely agree with and get to experience in the preschool I am currently working at.

Those are some of the basics, now here is the fun part, HOW and WHY Denmark maintains the belief that young children should be learning outdoors.

1. For starters, citizens of Denmark believe that children benefit so much from being outdoors and spending time out in nature. 

2. Children spend most of their outdoor play time by participating in completely unstructured play. The playgrounds are filled with fun, enriching and interesting materials to facilitate play. Slides, seesaws, swings, play houses, are just to name a few. But one of the most popular materials is an actual item you can always find in a nature setting... trees!

3. But besides play, children are also given the chance to participate in regular activities and field trips including going for walks, visiting a nearby fijord (the inlet of the sea) or lakes, and my personal favorite: helping make apple juice!

4. Children who attend preschool in Denmark get to go outside EVERY DAY, rain or shine. The only time they don't is if the weather is inclement.

5. On cold fall and winter days, children are not only able to eat lunch outside, they are also able to help make a soup lunch. Cooking with young children is one of my personal favorite ways to teach them and the fact that Denmark does this, almost makes me want to immigrate there haha. 

As you can see, when it comes to the development and education of young children, Denmark not only implements it, they are determined to help children grow in happy and healthy environments. The country allows them to be children which is how it should be in every part of the world. I loved researching this and revisiting a few of the things I learned in my seminar class. To end, here is my favorite quote about teaching young children: "Every child has a different learning style and pace. Each child is not only capable of learning but also capable of succeeding."

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Saturday, January 28, 2023

Denmark & WWII

Well, one good thing about my 2023 theme is that I am looking at a world map more closely these days. I am embarrassed to say that I don't know much about what countries are near each other. When I saw how close Denmark is to Germany I wondered what their experience was during WWII. 


If I was to visit Denmark I would definitely go to the Museum of Danish Resistence. There are lots of articles and books to read about it. I found the following information off Wikipedia.

The Danish resistance movement, with the assistance of many Danish citizens, managed to evacuate 7,220 of Denmark's 7,800 Jews, plus 686 non-Jewish spouses, by sea to nearby neutral Sweden during the Second World War.[1] The arrest and deportation of Danish Jews was ordered by the German leader Adolf Hitler, but the efforts to save them started earlier due to the plans being leaked on September 28, 1943 by German diplomat Georg Ferdinand Duckwitz.

The rescue is considered one of the largest actions of collective resistance to aggression in the countries occupied by Germany during the Second World War. As a result of the rescue, and of the following Danish intercession on behalf of the 464 Danish Jews who were captured and deported to the Theresienstadt concentration camp in the Protectorate of Bohemia and Moravia, over 99% of Denmark's Jewish population survived the Holocaust.[1]


ps - Interesting enough, I originally got my idea for this "one country per month" theme a couple of years ago when I realized I know nothing about Germany that doesn't have to do with WWI and WWII. I am looking forward to researching it later this year to find out the beautiful and fun and happy and peaceful things. 

 I am a firm believer that history should not be erased, and we must continue to learn from it - whether it is our personal history or country's history - the lessons we learn will help us to not let the evil things seep back in and happen again.  But no one's history is all bad, and there are good things to learn as well and they are worth telling and remembering and cherishing. So that is what I hope to do this year with each of our countries.


Wednesday, January 25, 2023

old but new

 I went for a walk today at one of my regular spots, but realized it hasn't been so regular for me for a while. Since our school has a nice track and neighborhood I've been doing my walking there, on my breaks or before school starts. It saves time, but I hope to get back to my old spots more this year. 

Though so many storms this month have caused a lot of problems for California - and I pray for those who have lost so much -  it has also brought much needed water. I find it fascinating that human beings can "catch" and "store" rain water to use for so many purposes/for life. An added blessing is the green it brings to our world. I haven't seen such a green path in a long time.





This retaining wall doesn't look like it can hold this hill back much longer!

And speaking of our school, it has a creek running right through it, with the lower grades at one end and the jr. high classes at the other. Who knew! - not me until all of the rain filled it up!  It is safely fenced off from the children. It is now starting to recede however. I hope we get more rain this year because we still really need it. . The following pictures are from the same creek on the outside of the school, in the neighborhood.




 

Tuesday, January 24, 2023

time and travel

Luke's car is on the fritz right now which has necessitated us giving him rides to BART or work. We know this is a temporary inconvenience and we are savoring it. It has meant more time with him in the car and more time with him at home. At 21 years old we know there are changes coming in his life - whatever he chooses for himself. We certainly do love him.

As I was driving him to work in the mornings last weekend it was bright and clear and hardly any traffic. I realized that I like the city a lot more than I used to, thanks to the invention of the GPS. Back, in the day I hated driving anywhere in the city because I worried about getting lost - which actually did happen a time or two. Not knowing where you are, and what streets are all of a sudden one way, etc. is just terrifying. But with the GPS, even if you take a wrong turn it gets you back on track.

I have discovered how much I like Fort Point, The Presidio, The Embarcadero, Aquatic Park, Golden Gate Park, Ocean Beach, Lands End, etc. etc. - especially if I go at non-commute hours.










Sunday, January 22, 2023

the smile on his face and the hope in his eyes


Working on our office desk this weekend I found this picture of Reggie. What a cutie! We don't have a lot of pictures of his childhood so this is a real find. I love the smile and hope in his eyes. He and his siblings did not have the easiest childhood. His Mom did her best to raise them and we will always love and honor her for that. We also treasure his memory of one particular Nun who was so kind and loving to him as he attended Catechism. Reggie says he was drawn to
religion from an early age, and I believe that Nun helped put that smile on his face and hope in his eyes. So now I better get ready for church as I am leading the "singing time" for the children today. The song we are learning is "Jesus Once Was a Little Child". Whatever path these children choose when they become adults, I hope it will always include smiles and hope and the memory and knowledge that they are loved.

Wednesday, January 18, 2023

Hmm, 12 months, 12 countries, 12 grandkids

 I was thinking about our theme today and had an exciting idea. I suggested a ZOOM meeting with our kids so we could tell them about it and by a lucky coincidence, everyone was able to attend! 

Each grandkid chose an index card #d 1-12; each number uncovered one country that we are going to research this year. Then the adults took their turn. It was fun to see an adult and child paired up for each country. The point of all this is that each person is going to get something from their country for Christmas, from Reggie & I.  HURRAY!  It might be small, like a snack, or homemade, or an actual store-bought present.  And, if they feel like, they are welcome to research their country throughout the year and share something about it when their month comes around. Maybe they can be guest bloggers! These teams, or pairing of adult and child, could evolve into something sweet - the fun of having something in common or getting something similar for Christmas.

So here are the results. I figure the blog is a great place to save the list so we can all refer to it throughout the year. Oh, and the list is very special because it does represent mine & Reggie's and our posterities heritage (according to my family journals and Reggie, Julia & Luke's DNA tests).


JANUARY - Denmark, Audrey & Hillary

FEBRUARY - Senegal, Addy & Luke

MARCH - Wales, Kaia & Nancy

APRIL - Portugal, Emmy & Lester

MAY - Mexico, Bear & Andrew

JUNE - (United States) Hawaii, Talia & Samantha

JULY - England, Lillian & Mariah

AUGUST - Phillipines, Hannah & Julia 

SEPTEMBER - Melanesia, Avonlea

OCTOBER - Ireland, Eli

NOVEMBER - (United States) Indigineous American, Nori & Reggie

DECEMBER - Germany, Isla & Ross

(There are only 10 adults, so Avonlea and Eli do not have partners.)




Tuesday, January 17, 2023

Things about Denmark

In English usage, Scandinavia most commonly refers to Denmark, Norway, Sweden, Finland and Iceland. Consequently much of the information I am finding about Denmark is referring to those countries as well. 




I have turned to a show, "Rick Steve's Europe" - specifically Denmark and Scandinavia episodes ,for information. I have found them on YouTube and highly recommend them. Watching video footage shows just how close these countries are to each other, and their beauty. 



There are some fascinating museums in Denmark - one featuring Hans Christian Anderson in his hometown, one about Vikings, and others. (Though I admit, the above very informative and enjoyable episode features a museum with a very early human's well preserved dead body, who died by having his throat slit before he was sacrificed. I found this too graphic and a bit disturbing, and though it shows children in the museum looking at the body, I might skip over that part if I'm watching the episode with children.)

Regarding Hans Christian Anderson, the following are pictures of how Denmark preserves his memory. Perhaps his most famous story is The Little Mermaid, though it and much of his stories focus more on lessons to be learned and not a happy ending (The Little Mermaid does not win the Prince's heart, and she turns into the foam of the sea.)




Outside his museum actors perform his fairytales
 



Children might also enjoy the facts that the movies Frozen and Klaus are set in Scandinavia and

Legos were invented in Denmark.


A lego replica of it's hometown, Billund Denmark.


                                                                  



Monday, January 16, 2023

Christmas in Denmark

January's country is Denmark. I want to know more about it because my great grandparents were Danish immigrants. Of course, the first thing I wanted to research was Christmas traditions of Denmark.  Here is what I found:


Christmas Markets are common throughout the Christmas season, selling traditional foods, gifts, you name it! 



In common with much of Europe (but not the UK), Denmark celebrates Christmas on December 24, Christmas Eve. Traditionally, that means eating an elaborate Christmas dinner in the evening and opening presents, often late into the night, afterwards. 

It’s a tradition in Danish houses to dance around the Christmas tree, holding hands as a family while you sing Christmas songs, before you start opening presents. Some families might do this before dinner instead. Christmas trees are decorated with real candles. Yes, real candles. They are an essential item for Christmas hygge – and we often burn an advent candle for one hour a day through December too.

Father Christmas/Santa Claus is named Julemanden in Danish (literally: The Christmas Man), and he is assisted by a group of Nisse, a sort of naughty elf that has a lot in common with the American ‘elf on the shelf’ (some people say they are the original version). Presents are brought for children by Julemanden and he arrives on December 24 to distribute them. No magic chimneys or middle-of-the-night magic required: he is typically one of the family (an uncle, dad or grandad) dressed up in traditional red robes.
Santa Lucia arrives, dressed in white, in Denmark on December 13 to bring light to what is becoming a very dark land. She leads a procession of girls, also dressed in white, and has a crown of candles in her hair. Instead of a nativity play in schools up and down the country, children look forward to taking part in the parade through their school or in their local area. 

Merry Christmas in Danish is ‘God Jul’.

Hot date to World Market!

 Ha Ha! The day before New Year's Eve Reggie and I wanted to go see a movie, but there was nothing in theaters that interested me. So, instead, we decided to prepare for this year's new theme by going on a scavenger hunt to World Market and Trader Joe's. It was a lot of fun! We found some stuff from countries I had already chosen, but got some ideas for countries I hadn't even considered. Now I have a few things sitting on the table waiting for their month (I made sure their expiration dates were not for a while!). I hope to send care packages to our kids and grandkids, at least in the months that highlight their heritage. 




p.s. - Though Trader Joe's is a fun, fairly new and extremely popular store, I have very fond childhood memories of World Market. Back in the day it went by the name "Cost Plus". My Dad especially liked to shop there for cute little toys from around the world. His favorite treat to buy for us was rice-paper candy from China. I remember being so fascinated when he said we were supposed to eat the inside wrapping!

Sunday, January 15, 2023

2023 Theme!

 This year I've decided that I would like to research and virtually visit one country per month. I especially want to include countries from mine and Reggie's lineage. This will actually take up most months because, as Reggie did the ancestry-program by mail, we've learned that there are a lot of different countries represented in his genetic make-up. But I will also include countries that I am just interested in.

Woo Hoo! I am excited!





Friday, January 13, 2023

dinner?

 When we don't have extra people there are 4 of us adults living here. That means that sometimes I make dinner and sometimes I don't. Since November, however, making dinner has become more fun for me. That is when our crock-pot died, so Reggie and I went shopping for a new-fangled "insta-pot".

 (The first time I heard about insta-pot is when someone on facebook asked - "What do you do with your insta-pot?" - I thought they were referring to marijuana, and so #1 I was very concerned, and #2 the only answer I thought there could be was "smoke it". But I digress.) 

 We heard (after knowing that it was a cooking tool) that it could replace the crock pot and rice cooker. Since then I have really enjoyed cooking with it. Of course, I lost the instruction manual soon after opening it, but luckily our son-in-law Andrew made a roast in it and I have looked up instructions on you-tube.

Last Saturday it was stormy outside (your know, our new normal). I was in the mood to make a comfort-food dinner. I pulled a roast out of the freezer (from my December meat-shopping-spree) and while it was defrosting watched Tia Mowry show me how to make stew in the insta-pot. Reggie cut the meat up and I took it from there. I also made rolls. They both turned out so good! The perfect thing for a rainy day.

That night our power went out for the next 12 plus hours. So, I brought the leftovers up to the church and warmed it in the microwave before we came home. Hurray for leftovers.

I made dinner 2 more nights that week - and then that was it. It's been leftovers ever since! - one of the perks of a house full of adults who can fend for themselves.

Well, tomorrow I think I'll make dinner again and we'll see how long that lasts.



Saturday, January 7, 2023

storms

 It's so strange that Reggie would be going out of town, to where it snows, yet have weather-wise reasons to worry about us at home. His flight left early Wednesday morning, just as the rain was starting to fall. At home we had all of our storm preparations ready to go: candles, flashlights, 72 hour kit, charged up phones and food water and blankets in our gassed-up car. 

Luke, Samantha and I went to work but were let out early enough to get home before the storm really got going. In fact, as I entered the freeway on-ramp to get Samantha, about 12:30 pm, there was a construction sign saying "flooded" yet it was not blocking the road. I know you are not supposed to drive through huge puddles because you could get stuck, washed away, or it could ruin your engine. But what could I do? - it was an on-ramp, so only one way to go. So I just kept going, and though it was a big puddle, I made it through. Luckily there is a back-roads way to and from her work and so that is what we took home. Our county was already in a declared state of emergency, and they wanted people to be off the roads by dark, so I was SO happy that that was the case for us. This freeway that we all take everyday (101) had already flooded and been shut down, both directions last Saturday.

So, safe at home, we ate a hot meal while we could and as part of my preparations I made cookies BEFORE the power went out! And yes, the power was out from about 4:30 that afternoon till 1 pm the next day. It rained HARD and the wind blew REALLY HARD. Yet it was a kind of peaceful night. We napped when we wanted and stayed up when we wanted. I stuck to my goal of cleaning the office, with lots of candles and lanterns to light my way. A few days after Christmas I had gone to a clearance sale at Hobby Lobby and found the lantern pictured below. It is really bright and fun and peace-invoking. I also looked at scrapbooks by candle/lantern light and read this month's copy of the Liahona (our church magazine). 




The next morning Luke and I went up to the church - which still had electricity - to charge our phones and check our emails. (My school and a lot of businesses had been cancelled for the day). I thought it would be fun to drive by the pier on the way there, to see the big waves, but the roads were blocked off. Hillary had seen the following video on facebook, so now we know why!


I spent the rest of my time at home organizing the basement from all of our holiday activities. By the evening, since the electricity was back, I got sucked in to computer and tv time, but that was ok too.

We had a nice break in the weather, as they say, yesterday, and are bracing for the next storm which is supposed to start today. The forecast says we will have rain for at least the next 10 days. Now it is time for me to worry about Reggie again, hoping he gets home before things really pick up.



Tuesday, January 3, 2023

wintery white

 My last entry for our color theme of 2021 - wintery white. Though I've taken pictures all year long of beautiful white flowers, by the end of the year I was just thinking of wintery white. December was a month of "Maverick" waves. We had fun parking by the pier in Pacifica, watching the waves and daring them to crash over the seawall to splash our car. It reminds me of the song "Marshmallow World":

It's a marshmallow world in the winterWhen the snow comes to cover the groundIt's time for play, it's a whipped cream dayI wait for it the whole year 'round
Those are marshmallow clouds being friendlyIn the arms of the evergreen treesAnd the sun is red, like a pumpkin headIt's shining so your nose won't freeze


And finally, here are my sentiments about the month and our theme of 2021 that I shared on Facebook:
December's - wintery white. Though I don't do snow I certainly appreciate it's beauty. Winters around here include bright-white clouds, and I was mesmerized by being above them on our recent plane trip.


I have thoroughly enjoyed my "colors of the month" 2022 theme. It has more vividly opened my eyes to the beauty of this world and made my days a little happier and more interesting.


Monday, January 2, 2023

out with the old year, in with the new

(I wrote this New Year's Eve)

 I blogged recently about how busy the holidays have been for me since mid-October and how I had a fleeting moment of thinking I was ready for Christmas to be over. I must admit, the last couple of days I have been able to wind down. I have done some cleaning and organizing here and there but decided I did not need to rush. I have concentrated on me a little bit. I am shocked that this included going to the dentist for a checkup. That is one of my biggest fears, but after putting things in perspective I just decided to make myself do it and did some positive self talk along the way. I promised myself I could blog and work on next year's theme (which I am so excited about!) and stuff like that as soon as I was home, and that I would not be mad at myself no matter what the dental verdict would be. Thankfully the dentist is kind and gentle, not judgmental, and not there to talk me into expensive things to make my teeth perfect. I even made an appointment to go back in a week to finish off what needs to be done, and an appointment for a regular check up in 6 months. I was so happy to have made myself do this. And I kept my promise to myself with my rewards for the rest of the day and long weekend.

Since everyone went home it has been raining and blowing day after day. It is feeling good to just stay inside. And all of a sudden I decided to do the baking that I said I didn't do much of at Christmas. I am making loaves and loves of mini pumpkin bread for friends and for the freezer; I made a pumpkin pie because I haven't yet this year and we have a lot of whipped cream; I've made half a batch of some of our favorite cookies, and a batch of black bottom cupcakes which are Reggie's favorite. Tonight we are having a small meal of store-bought appetizers, 1 bottle each of sparkling cider, and all the baking I mentioned. I hope we find a new release movie to watch together, and I really hope we play the new board games we got for Christmas.  It will be quiet and relaxing and fun. Just what I need. 

And I am SO grateful for the reason I need it. I am SO grateful for the busy holiday season we've had - for the noise, cramped quarters, family and friends, the scenery around me, and the reason for celebrating - my Savior Jesus Christ.

 I've been thinking a lot about my daughters and sons-in-laws, knowing that they are still in that stage of life where things never really slow down. I know their kids have been sick and even at the best of times it's hard to catch a break. But we've been there, and I admire them for all they do, and I hope they know that this season will end someday, and they will have days to concentrate on themselves, to look back on their lives and smile about it all.

So, as I've been baking today I've been finishing off Christmas movies and specials and episodes I've wanted to watch. In one episode of The Middle the Mom decided she was done with Christmas. But then she changed her mind and did every one of the traditional things on her list. She ended by saying something like "I guess it really is the most wonderful time of the year, because no matter how much you say you are done, Christmas always reels you back in". 

See you next year Christmas! And here's to you 2023!





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