
This is a picture of Jacob and Esau; it is a picture about forgiveness. I have always loved this picture. We are coming up on the story of Jacob and Esau in seminary, and I can't wait to share my feelings on the subject by showing this picture.
In my preparation for the lesson, I have learned that it was not a "stolen" birthright; it was meant for Jacob all along, because of the way he lived his life. Esau was technically born first, but did not live his life in a way that he could have received the blessing; we know that he sold it to Jacob for a bowl of porridge. But when it came down to the time of receiving the blessing, Esau did want it, very much.
I think that anybody who reads the story (in Genesis chapter 27) can't help but feel sorry for Esau. When he realizes that the birthright blessing is gone, he asks Isaac "Hast though but one blessing, my father? bless me, even me also, O my father" - "And Esau lifted up his voice, and wept". Then he swears that he will kill Jacob, as soon as their father dies.
Jacob flees to safety and makes a life for himself. Years later (Genesis: 33) Jacob's circumstances find him (and his huge family) heading back to his homeland, where Esau still lives. He is of course very nervous. When they are almost there Jacob sees Esau and an army full of men heading towards them. Jacob thinks that this is it. Then, as the picture shows, "Esau ran to meet him, and embraced him, and fell on his neck, and kissed him; and they wept." All is forgiven. Esau loves his brother and is so happy to have him home.
I know that Jacob was righteous and did what he had to do. I know that Esau made some bad choices in his life. But Esau, to me, is a wonderful example of forgiveness. He got over it; he let it go; he didn't insist on an agreement or apology in order to love his brother again.
I guess its ironic that I love this picture so much. I have realized, in the last couple of years, that I have a problem with forgiveness. I have a hard time getting over things; letting it go; loving without an apology first.
We are all a work in progress, and this is one of my projects. And I just love this picture.